Five of Cups

The Five of Cups represents grief, disappointment, and emotional loss. It appears when you're focused on what has gone wrong or what is no longer available, often missing what still remains. While the pain is valid, this card encourages perspective — urging you to acknowledge your feelings but also to recognize the support, love, or new possibilities that still surround you. It’s a call to gently shift your focus from sorrow to healing.

Key Symbolism & Imagery

• Number: Five – change, instability, emotional challenge
• Element: Water – emotions, mourning, recovery
• Astrological Association: Mars in Scorpio – deep emotional wounds, inner battles, transformation
• Visual Symbols: Figure in black cloak (grief), three spilled cups (loss), two upright cups (hope), river (flow of emotion), bridge and castle (path to healing)

Card Description (Rider-Waite-Smith)

In the Rider-Waite-Smith deck, the Five of Cups shows a cloaked figure mourning over three fallen cups. Behind them, two cups remain standing, unnoticed. A river flows in the background, with a bridge leading to a distant castle — symbols of emotional movement and healing. This imagery suggests sorrow, but also the possibility of renewal if the figure chooses to shift their gaze.

Common Questions About Five of Cups

Is the Five of Cups always a sad card?

While it does signify loss or emotional pain, it also contains hope. The two upright cups remind you that not all is lost — healing and recovery are still available.

What kind of loss does this refer to?

It could be emotional, relational, or spiritual — such as a breakup, a missed opportunity, or grief. This card points to what you're still processing emotionally.

What’s the spiritual message of this card?

Spiritually, it invites you to honor your pain without becoming defined by it. True growth comes through loss, and this card urges you to find strength in vulnerability and transformation.

Can it represent regret?

Yes. The Five of Cups often reflects dwelling on the past, regret, or replaying what went wrong. It encourages self-forgiveness and reclaiming emotional balance.

What do the two standing cups mean?

They represent emotional resources, relationships, or new opportunities that are still present. They're a quiet reminder that hope remains, even in disappointment.

Love & Relationships

Upright: Breakup or emotional distance, regret in love, mourning a past connection, difficulty moving on from a relationship.

Reversed: Reconciliation, healing after loss, emotional renewal in love, releasing past heartbreak, new romantic outlook.

Career & Finances

Upright: Job disappointment, career regret, missed opportunity, mourning a failed project, dissatisfaction with progress.

Reversed: Fresh career outlook, acceptance of a setback, new opportunities arising, emotional clarity in professional life.

Spiritual Meaning

The Five of Cups teaches the spiritual lesson of surrender and emotional maturity. It asks you to grieve fully but also to eventually lift your eyes to what still supports your growth. There’s wisdom in loss — and your soul is learning how to integrate sadness without losing sight of hope.