Empowered or Insecure? How to Tell Whatβs Really Going On in Your Love Life
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Written by Jessica Marlowe
Love & Relationship Expert at Kenuba
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"How does he feel about me?"
This question is asked more than any other — and yet, it may be the one that takes away your power the most. As psychics, empaths, and healers, we often guide women who feel stuck in emotional loops, unsure if the man they love truly values them. If you’ve asked this question recently, you’re not alone — but it’s time to flip the script.
Instead of constantly wondering how he feels, ask yourself: How do I feel about him? And am I acting from empowerment or insecurity?
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Signs You’re Empowered in Love
When you’re empowered, love feels like a choice — not a chase. You don’t ask, “What does he think of me?” You ask, “Is he right for me?”
Here are signs you’re approaching love from a place of power:
You have standards and speak up when they aren’t met.
You observe actions, not just words.
You’re open to love — but not afraid to walk away.
You take things slow and stay emotionally grounded.
You believe being single is better than being unvalued.
If this sounds like you, you’re not only protecting your heart — you’re attracting someone who will respect your worth.
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Warning Signs of Insecurity Disguised as Love
We’ve all been there. You start wondering why he isn’t calling, why he seems distant, why your efforts aren’t being returned. And before you know it, you’re:
Walking on eggshells just to avoid pushing him away
Forgiving red flags — again and again
Obsessively checking your phone or his social media
Confusing anxiety for passion
Staying because you’re afraid of being alone
Sound familiar? This is what we call attachment anxiety — and it often pulls powerful women into emotionally unavailable relationships.
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What Red Flags Are You Ignoring?
Sometimes, insecurity causes you to normalize red flags. But let’s call them out for what they are:
He’s inconsistent — hot one day, cold the next
He talks about his ex constantly
He’s avoidant, distant, or defensive when you ask for clarity
He makes you feel like you’re "too emotional"
He admits: "I'm no angel" or "I don’t do relationships well"
These are not just quirks. These are clues.
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Empowerment Starts With Self-Worth
Want to know how to attract the right man? Start by truly valuing yourself. When you hold yourself in high regard:
You won’t chase love — it will meet you where you are.
You won’t beg for clarity — the right one will offer it freely.
You won’t be manipulated by sweet words — you’ll trust consistent behavior.
A woman who loves herself is the most magnetic force on the planet.
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Quick Checklist: Are You Empowered or Insecure?
Empowered Woman Insecure Woman
Chooses her partner carefully Clings to emotionally unavailable partners
Speaks up for her needs Avoids conflict to "keep the peace"
Takes things slow Races toward commitment
Believes love should feel safe Believes love must feel intense
Values herself no matter who stays or goes Bases worth on whether he stays
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How a Psychic Love Reading Can Help
Still confused about your situation? A psychic reading from a trusted Kenuba advisor can bring:
Clarity about how he truly feels
Guidance on what the future holds
Empowerment to make the right choice for YOU
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. At Kenuba, our love psychics and tarot readers are here to help you reclaim your confidence and see your love life with fresh eyes.
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π¬ Start Your Love Reading Now
Are you ready to stop wondering and start knowing? Whether you’re in a situationship, a marriage, or feeling stuck in the past —
π Chat now with a love psychic at Kenuba.com and discover what’s really going on in his heart — and yours.
